Its A ...

Unhappy Dh is what is it. So that must mean... Its a Boy! Leonidas Thomas is going to be the name. Rick is still slightly hoping at my next ultrasound to check the fluid and placenta we try and do another gender shot and maybe its a girl LOL. I told him wish hard enough but i don't think that will happen.

Appt

I had my hematology appt today my bp was up today 140/100. The nurse did it 3 times and got the same thing all 3 times. So she made a note and was really concerned. I've had a massive migraine for a week now and I guess I never connected the two. I have a home BP monitor too and never checked it. It was checked again before leaving and was 139/100 so yeah not much of a difference.

The NP I saw today called the OB office and made them aware of it and told them to check me really well on thursday. I guess its a good thing I have an appt in 2 1/2 days.

Thursday 9am is my ultrasound and we are hoping to find out.

Girls name is Ianthe (ee-on-thee) Marie R*** and the Boy name is Leonidas (lee-on-i-duhs) Thomas R***... Thomas is after my grandpa who passed away when I as 13.

He died 3 days after christmas that year. I remember crying my eyes out. I was just up there a few weeks before Christmas for my 13th birthday. I remember that birthday really well since it was the last time I saw him. I didn't get to make the funeral since we lived in Indiana and didn't have the money to make another trip there.

Attitudes

Oh my goodness!!! Since coming back from their dad's the girls have had such attitudes. They are getting on my nerves and I'm tempted to smackem but instead I send them to their room or make them sit down for awhile. The other day I told the girls to stop spinning in some chairs because it was making me dizzy and they told me "well look somewhere else". I was in shock! Today Rick told Aja to stop twisting the chains on the swing and she told him I will do what I want to which he responded Don't get smart with me little girl and her response " I will get smart with you whenever I want to!" Oh man! I am ready to spank them and kick their dad.

Give me patience please! right now they are upstairs yelling and fighting and I know they are sisters and it is expected but man o man they are giving me a headache and its not going away even with pain killers. I go to sleep and wake with a headache worse than I had before I slept.

Update 7/17

so since my last post. Things have been weird, crazy, and boring all at the same time haha. the girls were gone to their dads until the 11th. We picked them up and stop by a small discount grocery store and got amish popcorn seeds.

I have had some bleeding since the last doc visit. I am just going by the doctors recommendations --- if it doesn't fill a pad then to drink water and take it easy. So I've been doing just that. On Friday the 10th I made an ER visit because of course my stupid leg was acting up. It was really hurting and nothing was making it better but things did make it worse. It was nothing according to the ER doctor so he gave me some pain pills to take as needed.

Osiris is all over the place anymore. He is into everything worse than ever before. He made up for his sisters being gone by being extra annoying and loud lol!

Thad is trying to crawl/scoot/move haha. He gets up on his knees and then loses it and falls down. He just has so much extra weight still he cant keep his knee grip lol. He has been saying Mum mum mum mum mum for almost 3wks now. He has never yet said dad/da or anything to that sort. So makes me feel extra special. He will say "hi" if you say it enough to him.

I had a follow-up on Wednesday for my bleeding on june 29th. At first the doctor wasn't even going to do an ultrasound since I have my BIG one next thursday. (6 days can't wait!!!) Well he went to get a listen to the hb and couldnt find it. We both thought we heard movement swishing but weren't sure. So he sent me for a quick hb/movement ultrasound. Lil bugger wouldn't hold still too long so it was fun. Anyways we got a couple quick glimpses at the goodies but nothing too good to be 100% sure on. We both think we saw "a girl" So hopefully we find out next week!

Sabrina had an allergy appt on wednesday. She is going to try singular for 6 months for her allergies and if that doesn't help then she will get weekly allergy injections and she is trying to avoid that because she hates needles with a passion.

I could smack their dad and I think I just might. He didn't have sabrina do her inhalers or allergy medicine for almost the 2wks they were gone. She did 4 days out of the time gone. He had her in a flea infested house and she got covered in flea bites and scratching herself to bits! She has an ear infection also now and got it from being gone. scratched some of the flea bites so bad they got infected. Her dad didn't take her to a doctor to be seen and he has insurance on the girls. I am so mad and the doctors are too actually.

the ultrasound pic from wednesday 18wks 3 days!